I have a favour to ask of everybody.
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Help me fill in the blanks. Please. Briefly write down a short summary on life or what the perfect life would be like.

Mine goes like this :

A journey so short can be deemed too long. When the road becomes bumpy, people whine and sometimes their mind 'defunct' so much so that they resorted to ending their lives as if it was as easy as learning how to eat or say a word or two.

When words of encouragement poured in, they are often said in a such an optimistic manner and influenced you to change your thinking thus allowing you to pick yourself up and start focuing on a new paved path and not dwindle away your time bringing up on the past.

Like the saying goes : Easier said than done(there is actually a more precise statement regarding this phrase but i just kind of shorten it as i forgot how the saying goes) Now, i think when approaching certain issues or situations, rather than just mapped and planned out the series of events chronologically, it will be better to tackle it without much preparations and to act as to what your gut feelings or instincts tell you to do so. After the course of action has been done, then do you start ruminating about what you have done.

But waittt! After discovering where you went wrong and start blaming yourself for doing this and that wrongly, dont hold any regrets but applaud yourself for having carried out whatever needs to be done 'on impulse'. To actually do things without thorough thinking may seem harsh and 'unruly' and people will start mouthing you off as unorganised and whatever piece of shit. But I'm sure those people who think on the 'different side'(the ones who mouthed those 'harsh and unruly' people off) are plain cowards who shield themselves away from everything and start slamming others when they dont even bring up the person's Sense of Courage to tackle the problem uo for mention.

A long time ago, some months back, i saw a friend's, a P6 classmate of mine write a message that goes like this in her MSN personal message : (eh, its something like this, i only have a vague memory of it) "Memories fade away, but Scars remain"

Its completely true but if i were her, i wouldnt have written "Scars remain" down. At that time i was thinking " why 'scars remain'?" Did she mean to say she bore regrets over what she had done? alrights but maybe she holds a perspection which is wide apart from me. HAHAs. ^_^ but then whatever the reason, i dont think its a healthy thing to have regrets from the past, thought they surely teach you to learn from mistakes.

All i wanna highlight in this post is that there are many many instances when you encounter a difficulty in life, but life, is meant for us to approach problems in a rightful way and at the same time, enjoy what you have gained from experiences. Most importantly is that we dont look back and grumble.

Well, afterall, thats not life.